Focus
Whether it’s in school, life, or work, staying focused and persistent is one of the best things we can do. Here’s Dear Mishu’s advice on focus.
I have my dream job but the stress is destroying my home and social life. What should I do, W. asks, Mishu answers
Dear W. – I think you know what to do! You told me you don’t…
Dear Mishu, I want someone who did the unspeakable to get what they deserve. Am I bad person, Georgia asks, Mishu answers
Georgia, sweetie, you could never be a bad human! If we’re just talking about your…
Dear Mishu, I need to make my college decision but I’m worried about tuition costs and I don’t want to have loans. What should I do, Alison asks, Mishu answers
Dear Alison: I’m so proud of you — that you were accepted to college and…
Dear Mishu, How can I stop procrastinating, Tyler asks, Mishu answers
Dear Tyler,You’re probably doing stuff you don’t really want to do. I don’t really ever…
Focus! Can you guess what I’m looking at…?
Focus! Can you guess what I’m looking at…? Hint: on the other side of the…
Dear Mishu, My family doesn’t have a lot of money and some people at school bully me about the way I dress. Do you have any ideas for me, Jordan asks, Mishu answers
Dear Jordan – The best way to deal with bullies is to show them they…
I’m stressing about things that are out of my control. I get anxiety and panic attacks, even though I try to take deep breaths…, Andrea asks, Mishu answers
Dear Mishu,
I’m stressing about things that are out of my control. I get anxiety and panic attacks, even though I try to take deep breaths…
❤️️ Andrea
I’m an athlete. I feel like I’m getting in my head and doubting my abilities. What can I do to calm down? Abi asks, Mishu answers.
Dear Abi – I like treats. I think you should eat a small (human) treat before you practice or compete, and imagine that you are getting that treat from me. Focus on the feeling that Dear Mishu and your friends here are behind you 100%. Then just let your body do what it knows how to do!
My partner is always unsatisfied and gets #angry with me a lot. What should I do, N. Asks, Mishu answers.
Dear N. – I usually run away from people who are angry at me. If they’re angry a lot, I don’t even get near them to start. In my experience angry people can hurt you, so if I were you I would you get away.
I like this girl, but I’m nervous to ask her out. Any advice? A. Asks, Mishu answers
A: Dear A.: When I meet dogs I like, I give them a play bow to say, ‘hey, let’s play.’ If they bow back and start playing – great. If not, that’s ok too. Maybe ask her if she likes to do something you really like, and if she says yes, invite her to join you sometime. If she says no then you can play by yourself or ask someone else to join you….
… Just think – asking someone to play is actually the easy part. The hard part comes if they say yes and you have to learn to get along.
Love,
Mishu
Do you have any other suggestions for A? Leave a comment to share your advice!
I can’t get over my stage fright. I don’t like talking in front of people, Kaiden asks, Mishu answers
Dear Kaiden, Maybe try to focus on your excitement about what you want to say,…
People take advantage of my #kindness… how I should deal with them diplomatically, Aisha asks, Mishu answers
People take advantage of my kindness… how I should deal with them diplomatically?
Think about all the fun things you want to do, and what will get you there
Dear Chloe
Maybe when you’re stressed and wanting to eat bad food, think about all the good things you want to do and what food will help you do them! Also, if you’re stressed, maybe a squeaky toy could help?
Love: Mishu
What do you guys think Chloe should do to avoid stress eating? Comment with your advice below!
When you’re at a job interview, show them how excited you are to try new things
Dear Abigail: Maybe tell them how excited you are to try new things? Whenever I want to do something new, I make it really, really clear that I want it. For example, if I’m in the car and I can see a lot of trees outside, I constantly make whining noises so my people know I really, really want to go run in the woods and chase some deer.
Love: Mishu
Comment below with your best first job interview to-do (or not-to-do) tips, based on your experience…
