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Do I have the power to #change someone’s life? Trish asks, Mishu answers.

If you mean by giving 💗 then yes. Empower them with your love and they’ll make the changes they need. Otherwise, don’t assume you know what’s good for others.

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Trying to change someone’s life is a risky business. It assumes that you know what they need and want. And that you know what to do to bring about that change. And that what you do won’t make things worse. That’s a lot of “ifs.”

A better way to think about your desire to change someone’s life is to think about what will empower them to make the changes they want and need.

That usually means love. Unconditional love where they know that whatever they do, they’ll be loved. Love that supports them to try and fail and try again. Empowering people with your love is the best way to chan their lives.

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